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In creative writing classes, you're told to write what you know. Therefore, writers' first novels are often autobiographical. The Joy Luck Club is no different. This is such a typical first novel.
Amy Tan writes of mother-daughter relationships, and specifically, her own stressful relationship with her mother.
I have no time or sympathy for women who have "issues" with their mothers. I mean, come on, get over it. Life is short. Love your mother. What's the big deal? Why can't y'all just get along?
My mom passed away when I was 25, and it sucks.
So, maybe you can understand why I'm a little tired of hearing people (and some of my girlfriends) complain about their moms. I think daughters should spend more time mending bridges rather than tearing them down.
Once I was baby-sitting a seven-year-old girl in Boston. We were in her bedroom, which was pink pink pink. The mother was in the room too, for some reason, and the girl said, "Mommy, I like pink. But you don't like pink. We're different. And that's ok."
Seriously, verbatim, that's what the little girl said. Moments later, in the hallway, the mother (who I knew had her own "issues" with her own mother) turned to me and said, "It's taken me fourteen years of therapy to come to the same conclusion."
Anyway, if you are indeed a carbon copy of your mom or not, who cares. Surely you can find something nice to talk about. You shouldn't waste time pushing each other's buttons. Life is short.
So, with all that said, this book was not my favorite.
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